{"id":18502,"date":"2019-11-17T15:32:30","date_gmt":"2019-11-17T07:32:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/scaccmm.sarawakmethodist.org\/?p=18502"},"modified":"2019-11-17T15:32:30","modified_gmt":"2019-11-17T07:32:30","slug":"ordinarymoments-grieve-not-their-hearts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scaccmm.sarawakmethodist.org\/new\/?p=18502","title":{"rendered":"ORDINARYmoments: Grieve Not Their Hearts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The month of May is the time for celebrating mothers\u2019 day or parents\u2019 day in our church. In fact, everywhere from radio to social media to cake shops, there will be hints and quotes and pictures to remind us to honour and love our parents. Recently as I read the Bible, I read an incident that is the complete opposite of honouring parents. I thought perhaps in the midst of all the loving and warm messages of mothers\u2019 day, we can read this negative example in order to impress on us not to grieve the hearts of our parents.<\/p>\n<p>The story revolves around Aaron, an important figure in the Bible. He was one of the key leaders of the Israelites in the past. Together with his brother and sister, Moses and Miriam, he led the Israelites out of Egypt. Belonging to the tribe of Levi, Aaron and his tribe were appointed by God to be priests serving God in the Temple. Aaron was the first High Priest and his four sons were also anointed as priests according to Moses\u2019 instructions from God. At first they served God together as a family, but then a tragedy happened:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAaron\u2019s sons Nadab and Abihu took their censers, put fire in them and added incense; and they offered unauthorized fire before the Lord, contrary to his command. So fire came out from the presence of the Lord and consumed them, and they died before the Lord.\u201d (Leviticus 10:1-2)<\/p>\n<p>Aaron\u2019s two sons had just been anointed as priests, presenting offerings on behalf of the Israelites. They would not have been ignorant or unclear about God\u2019s commandments, but still they made the offerings in the way they preferred. At the heart of it, they were holding God\u2019s authority in contempt. \u201cUnauthorized fire\u201d is normal fire, fire not taken from the altar. Fire on the altar was lit by God, and therefore holy. \u201cTheir censers\u201d are objects unrelated to the altar. God had already decreed that incense would be burnt on the altar only.<\/p>\n<p>Aaron\u2019s sons were not only rebellious towards their parents, but also to God. Aaron, as a father and the high priest, was watching as his sons committed grave sins, so that they were killed by God in front of the people. As they died they were still in priest\u2019s clothing. What a blow this must have been. Moses explained to Aaron, saying, \u201cThis is what the LORD spoke of when he said: \u201c\u2019Among those who approach me I will be proved holy; in the sight of all the people I will be honoured.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAaron remained silent.\u201d (Leviticus 10:3) \u201cRemained silent\u201d does not just mean holding back without making a sound, here it has a very intense emotion meaning \u201cheart was pierced through\u201d. Aaron held back his grief, even though his heart was pierced through. He did not defend his sons or speak out for them, instead he submitted to the display of the glory of God, willingly laying aside his feelings. In such a painful moment, Aaron chose to honour God over his sons. As parents, are we capable of doing this?<\/p>\n<p>Children, how many times do we feel we want to handle things our own way? We become arrogant and proud of our own importance and abilities. We are too full of contempt to follow the instructions of our parents and ultimately God\u2019s word. This tragic incident reminds us to carefully examine our actions and our hearts so as not to bring grief and sorrow to our parents.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps the best gift to our parents is not just carnations or a cake, but in all we do and all we are, we grieve them not.<\/p>\n<h6><span style=\"color: #008000;\">By Winnie Chan<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #008000;\">Lay Preacher of Wesley Methodist <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #008000;\">Church, Sibu<\/span><\/h6>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The month of May is the time for celebrating mothers\u2019 day or parents\u2019 day in our church. In fact, everywhere from radio to social media to cake shops, there will be hints and quotes and pictures to remind us to honour and love our parents. 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